This was suppose to be a commnet lah but it got too long...
You know babe.. It's so much easier for them men to be Super ready for it cos they are not the ones who have to go through all the crap. Those mood swing, the physical and emotional transformation, the possible depression, the ugly veins, and the part when it all comes out. All they get out of it is the climax, putting up with the mood swings etc..and voila.... the end product, the seeds they have sown. After all that we are still the ones who have to follow through with the care and the feeding, while they.... hmmm 'assist'.
Well if thats all that I have to go through, I am super ready myself....
I am sure we all know frens or family who had one and now saying they want number two..or three and shit like that. They say after you've gone through it, it actually is not that bad. Well fuck that cos i can safely say, they actually felt the same we do now. This ain't a case of 'When you are Ready', It's a case of, You Have No Choice But To Be Ready! This is the fact, in most cases!
Then there is always the lack of contraception lah..and those ppl just don't know when to stop..haha!!
But seriously....How fair is it to have a kid and say let my parents take care of them (even they are ready and willing to do so)? How fair is it to just be a as you put it, a weekend parent? Considering that there's barely even time to spend on the lil tyke after a long day's work during the week.
Like you I do not know why but there are a myriad of reasons I can possibly come up with to justify my hesitation.
Everytime the time I set for myself comes by... I seem to automatically look to push it further or find excuses to delay it. Till I'm ready I say... but in all honesty I know I am lying to myself cos I know if I ask myself... for real...I will never ever be ready.
Yes.. I'm still alive..!! You can stop wondering ...
Anyways, all alone at home right now. Tv was showing crap so decided that this was one of those rare time I actually use the Friggin PC at home!
I suddenly decided to change the skin to my blogspot site!! Kinda miss doing shit like that.
So since I've got the skin all changed and nice...I'm crossposting this to blogger! Kinda miss that old site where i started it all!
Anyways i decided to post my archives up this time around. Never realised how long ago I started the blog. November 2002...thats way back..and its just nice that it's november ..so that makes it 6 long years!!
I went through some of my old post and realised how much I have grown over the past 6 years. I also noticed the amount of vulgarities that was part of my everyday vocabulary back then. As i slowly read em, i saw that it got less as I grew..ermm...older! Less angsty I suppose! I was so damn mushy and emo too sia in some of the post... well ya lah..honeymoon period with the husband...then boyfriend... so i guess can be forgiven..haha!
Lots of quizzes too back then..haha ! Last time when I was at work when I had nothing much left to do..I really had nothin much left to do lor!! So time spent to do quizzes and bloghopping! Stark contrast to how it is now, I got so much to do, I dun even have time to blog nowadays...much less do quizzes. Even when i have pretty much done things I have to do..there will still be things starting to pile up....
I'm still not done with em..gonna take a while reading through 6 years worth of ramblings. But right now there's something else i gotta do so I'm gonna scoot! Those of you who knows my blogger addy..you can find your way to the archives if you're interested! Don't laugh and make fun ..can ledi..but somehow i seriously doubt that wun happen!